How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time.
No, I do not eat nor am I condoning eating an actual elephant. *No elephants were harmed in the writing of this blog post.
I love using this metaphor to describe how you tackle big goals, or projects, i.e. you break it into smaller more manageable pieces. It may seem simple enough, but it’s amazing how many leaders become overwhelmed, and fail to break the goals/project into smaller pieces.
There are many different goals that can seem overwhelming at first.
- I don’t delegate, because I don’t think my team know how to do the job as well as I do.
- I don’t know how to grow my network
- I don’t speak up in meetings because I don’t want to interrupt others.
- I don’t lead meetings because I am nervous.
- I am stressed because I don’t have time for myself
Whatever the goal, start with breaking it into pieces:
- What would be the first thing you need to get done? What’s the easiest or smallest task that can be delegated?
- What’s the smallest step you can take towards this goal? Can you attend one network event, and speak to one person. Can you take a lunch break or coffee break outside, and not in front off your computer?
- Who can help you to progress in this goal? Can you learn from someone who is an expert at leading meetings?
- Then take the first small step.
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